The Science Is In: This Is How To Fulfill Her Fantasies And Yours
You like novelty, but she craves familiarity.

April 16, 2013


A woman’s sexual fantasies tend to be recurring and are often triggered by someone she knows, according to a new study published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior.

One popular theme: “most women reported fantasies in which their partner was so turned on he had to have sex with her on the spot,” says study author Dr. Samantha Dawson. If this is the case try using our guide to having hotter sex outdoors.

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Having sex at the exact moment the thought strikes is fairly common and a lot of the time it occurs in public. Take these 100 people, for example, who shared the weirdest places they have ever had sex. It might give you a few ideas as to how you can fulfill her fantasy. Next time you feel turned on you can just go for it like these people, trust us she will love it:

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Other prominent themes were foreplay, bondage and chivalry. This isn’t that surprising because studies have found that women’s number one thing she wants in bed is often spanking and that 62% of women like rough sex.

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Curious what your girlfriend imagines doing with you? Ask her to write down her fantasies as they occur. Doing this may make her more aware of her desires – and can help you fulfill them, says Dawson.