Sex in the shower kills two birds with stone, it gives you pleasure and you can get clean immediately after. After a few too many, it seems like a great idea. Let sex therapist Dr Marianne Brandon show you how to handle shower sex.
Do: Make foreplay the main event and treat sex as a quickie. Uncomfortable positions won’t last as long that way, and you’re less likely to slip and twist an ankle.
Don’t: Use the water as a lubricant – it washes away her natural lubrication
Do: Keep the hand towels nearby in case her knees or other parts require padding.
Don’t: Offer her an “all over” wash with the hotel’s shower gel. Getting soapy is fine but it can irritate if the wash becomes too intimate.
Do: Hand her the showerhead, if it’s detachable. Once she sets the temperature and flow, take over so her hands are free.
Don’t: Use the shower rail for balance. Spreading your feet against the sides of the tub or positioning yourselves in a corner is far more secure.
Do: Use standing rearentry. You both stay on your feet and she can bend over for the best angle.
Don’t, please don’t: Try to lift her. You simply can’t trust your proprioception at this hour.